Fan Friday With Guest Author Lisa Jordan- How To Be A Blessing At Writers Conference

Today I am delighted to introduce Author Lisa Jordan, my close friend and critique buddy. Lisa paints her words with beautiful imagery, tender romance, and a dash of spice. We will have a drawing for a free copy of her brand new book Lakeside Family. To enter your name in the drawing leave a comment below.


Married 23 years to her real-life hero, Lisa Jordan knows a thing or two about romance. She and her husband have two college-age sons. Lisa writes contemporary Christian romance for Love Inspired. Her debut novel, Lakeside Reunion, is a 2012 Carol Finalist. Her second novel, Lakeside Family, released in August. To learn more about Lisa, visit her website at and her Facebook Author Page at

Be a Blessing

Attending my first conference was a life-changing experience…and a huge leap out of my comfort zone. Traveling to Nashville in 2005 had been my first time flying solo. For this directionally-challenged gal, I worried I’d end up on the wrong plane. Not only that, but I was about to head into a hotel where I didn’t know a single soul. Well, I knew some of them, but I hadn’t met them face-to-face. Our contact had been online via email, blogs, etc. And you know what others say about people you meet online. Well, I’m happy to report there wasn’t a single stalker or psychopath among them…I didn’t count the zealous writers who followed the agents or editors into the restroom.

What impressed me the most about that first writers conference was how other writers went out of their way to bless me with words of encouragement, prayers and random acts of kindness.

My conference takeaway was I wanted to be that kind of person to others at upcoming conferences.

Before each conference I attended, I prayed and asked God to use me to bless someone who needed it. This person may be a stranger at the airport, another writer or a staff member at the conference hotel.

How about you? Maybe you’re uncertain where to start. Here are my suggestions to Be a Blessing to others:

  1. Be kind. A simple smile and a kind attitude go a long way. A smile signals “I see you” to someone else in a crowded room. Step outside of your comfort zone and say hello. This is a tough one for me. I’m an introvert so talking to strangers can be a challenge. But at a writers conference, we have commonalities. While standing in line, ask someone what they write or where they’re from. Those icebreakers open the gates to conversation.
  2. Be a Volunteer. Volunteering at a conference blesses the conference director, but it puts you in contact with others. Use those opportunities to build relationships.
  3. Be a Prayer Warrior. Before you register, pray for God’s presence at the conference. Pray for those who can’t attend. At the conference, pray for someone who may be feeling discouraged. If you notice someone sitting by herself and seems to be discouraged, ask if everything is okay, then offer to pray for her.
  4. Be transparent. Conferences are ripe with moments of embarrassment. When someone wants to crawl under the table, empathize and share one of your own faux pas. Chances are, you will be able to bond and help the other person laugh about the situation. Showing your heart puts others at ease.
  5. Be gracious. Conference emotions run rampant when hundreds of people attend the same place. Hurt feelings are bound to happen. Be sensitive to situations, but focus on grace instead of allowing resentment and bitterness to steal your joy.

People will leave the conference with suitcases stuffed with dirty laundry, purchased books and lasting impressions. Make sure their impression of you is one of blessing. Your attitude is remembered long after the conference ends.

Your Turn: How has someone blessed you at a writers conference? How can you be a blessing to others?




About Michelle Lim

Author Michelle Lim is the Brainstorming/Huddle Coach with My Book Therapy Press and the Midwest Zone Director for American Christian Fiction Writers. Michelle’s romantic suspense is represented by Karen Solem of Spencillhill Associates and has gained contest recognition in the Frasier, the Genesis, and the Phoenix Rattler, winning the Genesis in 2015 for her genre. Michelle writes devotionals for The Christian Pulse Online Magazine and Putting On The New. Since her nonfiction book release, Idea Sparking: How To Brainstorm Conflict In Your Novel, through public speaking and online chats Michelle helps writers discover the revolutionary power of brainstorming to bring new life to their stories.

4 thoughts on “Fan Friday With Guest Author Lisa Jordan- How To Be A Blessing At Writers Conference

  1. Melissa Tagg says:

    I will never forget the way people prayed for me and encouraged me at my first ACFW conference. Some were people I knew, others were total strangers. It amazed me. And then last year, my second year, I was actually much more nervous than the prior year…and I’ll never forget Beth Vogt and the rest of the MBT team praying for me in a restaurant after the ezine staff dinner.

    I’m going this year with a BIG goal to reach out to other people the way so many people have reached out to me.

    Great stuff, Lisa!

  2. That’s what I’m praying this year, Lisa.,,that God will use me to bless others, and that I will actively seek ways.

  3. bethkvogt says:

    I was blessed by Lisa the first time I attended ACFW . Her friendly smile was so, so welcoming at the MBT Pizza Party!
    And I’ve learned being friendly to someone else is a great way to cover your own nervousness!

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